Tag: money-anxiety

  • Almost a Third of Americans Feel Financially Broke — Even When They’re Not. I Know the Feeling.

    Almost a Third of Americans Feel Financially Broke — Even When They’re Not. I Know the Feeling.

    person looking at smartphone with worried expression

    I remember the moment clearly.

    I had just checked my bank balance. There was money there. More than last month, actually. But I didn’t feel relieved. I felt the same knot in my stomach I always felt.

    That’s the trap with money dysmorphia — no amount of money fixes it because the problem isn’t the money. It’s the voice in your head that keeps saying it isn’t enough. You can’t budget your way out of a lie you believe about yourself.

    Why?

    Because my brain kept telling me: “It’s not enough. It’ll never be enough.”

    Turns out, I wasn’t alone.

    A recent study found that 29% of Americans suffer from “money dysmorphia” — a distorted view of their own finances that makes them feel poor even when they’re doing okay financially (Credit Karma’s Money Dysmorphia Report, 2026, based on a national survey of 1,039 U.S. adults conducted January 2026).

    For Gen Z, it’s even higher — 43%.

    Money Dysmorphia StatisticPercentageDemographicSourceYearSurvey Details
    Money Dysmorphia Rate29%General US AdultsCredit Karma20261,039 adults (Jan 2026)
    Money Dysmorphia Rate43%Gen ZCredit Karma2026Subset of 1,039
    Says It Hurts Finances95%People with money dysmorphiaCredit Karma2026Of the 29-43% affected
    stressed person looking at laptop

    What is money dysmorphia exactly?

    It’s when your financial reality doesn’t match your financial feelings.

    You might have a steady job. You might be saving something each month. But you still feel like you’re falling behind. You compare yourself to others online. You see people buying houses, going on vacations, and you wonder: “What’s wrong with me?”

    Connected: Why I Stopped Thinking About Money All the Time

    The study also found that 95% of people with money dysmorphia say it hurts their actual financial situation. They make worse decisions because they feel desperate, even when they’re not.

    I’ve been there.

    What I learned about my own money dysmorphia:

    When I felt “poor,” I made poor choices. I’d avoid checking my accounts. I’d spend small amounts to feel better. I’d say yes to things I couldn’t afford because I wanted to feel “normal.”

    The feeling was the problem. Not the number.

    Once I realized that, everything changed. I stopped trying to earn my way out of anxiety and started trying to think my way out of it. The numbers didn’t need to change — my brain did.

    calm person writing in a notebook

    Here’s what started helping me:

    1. Stop comparing. I unfollowed people who made me feel behind. Their highlight reel isn’t my reality.
    2. Check the actual numbers. I started looking at my accounts every morning — not to panic, but to know. The truth is usually less scary than what your brain imagines.
    3. Talk about it. The study found that people who openly discuss money with friends and family feel less anxious. I started doing this. It helped more than I expected.
    4. Separate feelings from facts. Just because I feel behind doesn’t mean I am behind. Feelings are real, but they’re not always true.

    This helps too: 60% of Americans Bought Secondhand Last Year

    The honest truth:

    Money dysmorphia isn’t about your bank balance. It’s about your brain lying to you.

    The fix isn’t getting more money. The fix is changing how you see the money you already have.

    Question for you: When was the last time you actually checked your numbers and compared them to how you feel about your money? Try it today. You might surprise yourself.

    Face the numbers: Why I Used to Avoid Opening My Own Bank App

    Disclaimer: This article is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as financial or mental health advice. Money dysmorphia and financial anxiety vary by individual and require personalized assessment. Consult with a qualified mental health professional or financial advisor if financial distress is significantly impacting your wellbeing.

  • Why I Stopped Thinking About Money All the Time (And What I Did Instead)

    Why I Stopped Thinking About Money All the Time (And What I Did Instead)

    stressed person looking at calculator and bills on desk

    I used to think about money all day. Every single day. From the moment I woke up until I went to sleep.

    The worst part wasn’t the stress itself — it was thinking I had to feel that way. Like worrying constantly somehow meant I was being responsible. Nobody told me you could be smart about money AND stop torturing yourself about it.

    Do I have enough for this month?

    What if something unexpected happens?

    How will I pay this bill?

    This constant thinking was exhausting me. Not just my mind, but my body too. I felt tired even when I hadn’t done anything.

    A recent survey found that 73% of adults say money is a major source of stress in their lives (APA’s Stress in America survey, 2023, national sample of 3,500 adults). That’s huge. Three out of every four people feel the same way I did.

    Money Stress StatisticPercentageSourceYearSample Size
    Money = Major Stress Source73%APA Stress in America20233,500 adults
    Approximate Population~3 in 4Equivalent ratio2023General

    But I realized something important: Thinking about a problem isn’t the same as solving it.

    Same method: 37% of Americans Still Budget With Pen and Paper

    calm person writing in a notebook with a pen

    So I started doing something different.

    1. I set a specific time to think about money

    Instead of worrying all day, I set aside 15 minutes every morning. Just 15 minutes. I sit down, look at my numbers, and plan. After that, I stop. I don’t think about money again until the next day.

    Is it easy? No. But it works.

    1. I turned my worry into action

    Worry says: “What if I don’t have enough?”

    Action says: “What can I do today to make things better?”

    Instead of worrying about money, I started looking for work. Any work. Even small steps forward reduce anxiety more than just thinking about moving forward.

    Living this: Is Your Side Hustle Working, or Are You Just Tired?

    1. I remembered that money is a tool, not the goal

    We work to live. We don’t live to work.

    Money should serve your life, not the other way around.

     happy family sitting together at dinner table

    When I focus on my family, my kids, my health — money becomes just a means. Not the only thing that matters.

    This sounds simple, but it took me years to actually believe it. That my kids would remember the time I spent with them, not the spreadsheet I was staring at. Once I accepted that, the money stress didn’t disappear, but it lost its grip on everything.

    The bottom line:

    You can’t control everything about your financial life. But you can control how you think about it.

    If you’re stressed about money all the time, try this: set a specific time to worry about it, then stop. Turn your anxiety into small daily actions. And remember — you’re more than just numbers in a bank account.

    Question for you now: What’s one small thing you can do today, even if it’s tiny, to ease your money stress? Let me know in the comments.

    Next step: Why I Used to Avoid Opening My Own Bank App

    Disclaimer: This article is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as mental health or financial advice. Money anxiety and stress management strategies vary by individual. Consult with a qualified mental health professional or financial advisor if financial stress is significantly impacting your wellbeing.

  • Is Your Side Hustle Working, or Are You Just Tired?

    Is Your Side Hustle Working, or Are You Just Tired?

    I work on this every single day. Writing, applying, learning, checking numbers.

    Some days feel like progress. Other days just feel tired.

    I found out I’m not the only one who feels this way.

    Some mornings I wake up wondering if I’m just postponing failure with better intentions. But then I remember that 65% of people doing this also feel burned out, which means the burnout isn’t proof I’m doing it wrong — it’s just proof I’m doing it.

    Person working late on a laptop, looking tired

    The Penny Hoarder asked 1,000 Americans with side hustles how they feel. This was a real survey, done in February 2026.

    The number that hit me hardest: 65% of them feel burned out, at least sometimes. Only 10% never feel it.

    That’s most people. Not just me.

    Related struggle: I Cut My Coffee, Dessert, and DoorDash

    Side Hustle ExperiencePercentageSurvey DetailsSourceDate
    Feel Burned Out (at least sometimes)65%Majority experienceThe Penny HoarderFeb 2026
    Never Feel Burned Out10%Small minorityThe Penny HoarderFeb 2026
    Struggle Without Extra Income53%Rely on side income for basicsThe Penny HoarderFeb 2026
    Feel “Somewhat” Secure About Money44%Limited financial securityThe Penny HoarderFeb 2026
    Survey Sample Size1,000 AmericansSide hustlers onlyThe Penny HoarderFeb 2026

    Side Hustle Time & Income:

    MetricAmountContext
    Average Weekly Time13 hoursOngoing weekly investment
    Annual Hours676 hoursEqual to 17 extra full work weeks
    Average Monthly Income$1,275Reported by survey respondents

    Here’s another number that matters. 53% say they’d struggle to pay for basic things without this extra income. For a lot of people, this isn’t a hobby. It’s survival.

    Person working on a side business from a home desk

    The average person spends 13 hours a week on their side hustle. That’s 676 hours a year. That’s like 17 extra full work weeks, stacked on top of everything else.

    This reality: I Used to Live Paycheck to Paycheck

    I believe every hour of that. Some weeks, I’ve put in more than that. And I still haven’t made a single dollar yet.

    That’s the scariest part. Every hour of work without income feels like validation that this won’t work. But 53% of people are also relying on side income just to survive — so most of us are building this out of necessity, not choice.

    I want to be honest with you. The average side hustler in that survey makes about $1,275 a month. I’m not there. Not close, not yet.

    But I hold on to one thing: real people do get there. After real time. After real effort.

    Even then, only 44% feel “somewhat” secure about money. Not fully secure. Just somewhat.

    So maybe the hard part never fully goes away. It just changes shape.

    Sunrise over a city, symbolizing a fresh start

    If you’re building something from zero right now, and some days feel pointless, you are not doing it wrong.

    You’re doing exactly what 65% of people are also going through.

    Are you pushing through tiredness on something that hasn’t paid off yet? What keeps you going on the hard days?

    Understand the numbers: 45% of Americans Have a Side Hustle Now

    Disclaimer: This article is for educational purposes only and should not be considered as financial or career advice. Side hustle income, time investment, and burnout experiences vary by individual and by business type. Consult with a qualified financial advisor or mental health professional if work-related stress is impacting your wellbeing.